Tuesday, May 24, 2016
What is image? Image is typically what we want others to see despite what we're feeling underneath or what is truly going on in our lives. We all have an image, and that in and of itself is not a bad thing. Image, or persona, can help create healthy boundaries between ourselves and our environments, including other people. That bit of distance helps us have space and privacy where we need it. Everyone doesn't need to know everything. What becomes dangerous is when image evolves into more of a lie that we even start believing when we're alone.
We may want to believe that we're perfect, and try to show that to others instead of facing fears that are surfacing. These days, you may also notice social and media-induced peer pressure to show happiness to ourselves and to the world, even when we're feeling sad, angry, disappointed, or some other feeling instead. The idea of image can then start to encroach on personality and even become who we are to some extent, often to the detriment of our physical and mental health. The pull to be immune and safe in this world using an artificial image is something each person goes through at times.
Image is a tool that can be helpful in the roles we play at work and in life, when it is mostly in tune with who we are already. When it instead plays a more suppressive role in blocking out real emotions, thoughts, and expressions of who we are, it can also naturally suppresses health, hormones, neurotransmitters, and our personalities. It can become a cage in which we live with our unacknowledged fears and emotions.
The price of image overtaking who we are can be costly. Yet, it's okay to admit this and honestly look at what image you're showing to others, and ultimately to yourself. We live in a culture where image too easily becomes everything, and many people are dissatisfied with this way of living. Even when image affects health and stifles life, it can still be an addictive thing to pursue. However, if you remind yourself of what you really want in life, it can become easier to see how the image you're portraying might be blocking that. And then you can ask, what benefit is image really bringing to your life?
You know who you are, so what price are you willing to pay for image?
Hi everyone, hope you are having a great spring time!My boyfriend and I wrote some short stories we decided to put together in a book. It is self-published which by the way is easy to do through Amazon and Createspace, so if any of you ever write something you want to turn into a book, I'd be happy to explain the process to anyone who might be interested. Just let me know, it's actually quite easy and fun to do. The world of self-publishing is growing fast, and offers a way for anyone to put their creative works out there into the world. Anyways, we just wanted to share the link to our book, Modern Day Fables, and if any of you are interested in reading our stories we'd be really excited to share them with you (and if you want to leave a review that would be awesome too!).
We're both in health care as most of you know, and while on the surface most of these stories may not seem to be about health, you may see some connections to health hidden within them, especially through the theme of living life your own way despite what others or society may be telling you.
So just wanted to share the news, and hopefully you will pick up a copy! We're doing an introductory price of just $2.99 for the e-book. Thanks!
Aarti aka Dr. Patel